Friday, April 1, 2011

April 2011 Update

Has it been a month already?

I don't have much to report, but I'll give it a go just the same. I had the timing belt replaced on my car finally. It had been plaguing me, so I'm relieved to have had it done.

I'm still debt free. Mostly. No, no, it's not like that. I'm not back-sliding, as they say. I've been very careful about paying off any debt every month. The savings picture is OK. Not great, but OK. The auto repairs -- the timing belt replacement in particular -- weren't cheap. And there were a few other things, including the blender (which I still love), a couple of sweaters, and other treats.

I've also joined a gym. To make life easier I've already funded the account that the dues are coming from. I won't have to worry about it until next year.

What else is going on? Let's see ... Oh! I'm shopping for mattresses tomorrow (finally!), and I plan to buy. I was hoping to wait until I received my home buyer credit, but I have no idea when that's coming and I owe it to my back, which has only gotten worse in the last year, to go ahead and take care of it sooner rather than later.

All in all, things are good. And that's no April Fool's joke. :-)

Friday, March 11, 2011

March 2011 Update

Things are going pretty well. I believe when I left off I'd just splurged on a VitaMix blender. One would think there would be some buyer's remorse, but nope. I love it! I've used it practically every day.

In other financial news, I filed my tax return. I've received the regular portion of my refund, but not the home buyer credit, which apparently takes longer to process. Granted, I'm glad to have received part of my refund, but I was hoping to get the full amount. Oh well.

I've also taken care of some auto repairs. I had my drive belts replaced and the transmission fluid flushed last weekend. Next week? Timing belt. It's overdue and I want to take care of it before it becomes a problem.

Wow -- this is a really boring post. I like to think that that's a good thing, especially for a debt blog. Still, I'm about to myself to sleep with this, so I can only imagine how you must be feeling. I'll do us all a favor and close.

Saturday, February 5, 2011

Bring on the Greens!

I had to go to Costco today to get a new membership card. It's a bit of a pain to find parking at the shopping center where my Costco is located, so I figured I'd browse for a bit before heading out. And I'm glad I did. There was a deal on VitaMix blenders this weekend. I've wanted one for a long, long time. I've stalked them online for years. A year ago, I would've been forced to forgo the opportunity -- after all, even on sale, these blenders are still quite pricey. But this is one of those times that all those years of hard work were worth it.

So I splurged. I'm debating on whether I'll still take the overnight trip to Richmond in April or scale it back to just a day trip. While I can afford to do both, I'm also seeking balance. So we'll see.

The great thing about the blender is that I'll be able to make more smoothies, and in greater quantities. I have an immersion blender, but after nine years of regular use -- it's not unusual for me to use it five out of seven days -- it's showing its age. Also, I've wanted to start doing green smoothies, and my current cheap-o blender just doesn't cut it (pardon the pun). I am glad to be able to get out of my smoothie rut of mixed berries, OJ, AJ, and honey. The VitaMix will replace both appliances. Bring on the greens!

Friday, February 4, 2011

February 2011 Update

Happy February! I hope everyone is having a wonderful 2011 so far and making progress on paying off debt. And if not? Well ... there's always tomorrow to get back on track.

Things with me are going fairly well. I met with my financial planner a few weeks ago and opened a Roth IRA to supplement my 401(k). I had to make a deposit to open the account (of course), and will start the monthly contributions in mid-March.

Not counting the retirement funds, though, I have about $5,000. While it's not too shabby, it could be -- and should be -- higher. I've been dipping into my checking account cushion more than I'd like. This makes me nervous; I'm afraid of lapsing into old habits. For example, I'd been using a credit card (responsibly) to take advantage of an offer for extra rewards points. I paid the full balance at the end of the month, like I was supposed to, but the whole time I had a balance, I felt ill at ease. I've got to get over that. I've got to heal my relationship with money. Right now it has way too much power. I think about it constantly. For a long time I allowed the debt to control my life, influence my well-being. I equated my self-worth to my net worth. Now I'm doing the same thing with my savings.

I recently completed my federal and state tax returns and will mail them later this month. It was my first time itemizing. I'd obsessed about that for months, but it wasn't as bad as I'd made it out in my head. Thankfully, everything was straightforward. Anyway, I'm due a decent refund, so I'll have that to look forward to in a month or two. (Apparently it takes longer to process returns for those who claim the first-time home buyer credit.) I still need new mattresses, and there are a few other things I'd like to purchase. Also, there are a few trips in my future: a friend's wedding in Massachusetts this September, and a vacation for me in May 2012 (details to be announced later). And I'm thinking about a quick overnight trip to Richmond in April. I want to hit the museum and do a little window-shopping in Carytown. It's time I start doing some fun things.

So that's where we are this month.

Saturday, January 1, 2011

What a Difference a Year Makes

Last year this time I still owed almost $6,000 on my credit cards. This year? Zip. Zilch. Zero. Happy New Year!

I don't want to sound like I'm gloating, and I hope it doesn't come across that way. But it is a great feeling and a great way to start off a new year. If you're still struggling with your debt, please, by all means, keep at it. The sacrifices are so worth it.

The other great thing about not having debt? Being able to splurge occasionally without (too much) guilt. The other day I bought a sweater that, though 50 percent off, was still pricey -- at least in my world. But I desperately could use new clothes, and the sweater was right up my alley.

That said, I still have work to do on finding a balance between spending and being a miser. For example, I bought that sweater without giving it a second thought. But just thinking about buying furniture makes me so anxious I can hardly stand it. Today, for example, I walked into a furniture store, stood there a few feet inside the door, looked around, and walked out. I just couldn't deal with it.

So see? I've got a lot of work to do as far as my relationship with money is concerned.

I am trying an experiment this month: I am going to try to use my credit card with a high cash-back reward for my grocery purchases throughout January and pay it off at the end of the month. I will check in on my progress. The goal remains for me to not have any revolving debt, except the occasional small amount to keep the account active (and the bank fairly happy).

I meet with the financial planner in a couple of weeks. We're going to discuss opening an IRA and any tax concerns or considerations coming up. As for the tax refund -- including the home buyer credit -- it's going directly into my savings account. I will use some for a new couch this year, but I may put off any other furniture purchases until next spring. Well, that is, unless I find something I absolutely love.

For now, though, I want to concentrate on how wonderful it feels to be debt free. Here's to a prosperous 2011.

Monday, December 6, 2010

The Fives Have It

Several years ago, a coworker/friend who sat beside me got excited when someone who owed him for lunch got a $5 bill. "This'll go in the money drawer!" he exclaimed. "What are you talking about?" I asked. And then he explained: Every year he picks a denomination to save and every time he gets that bill, it goes in the drawer. Some years it was all ones. Sometimes fives. But whatever he chose, he stuck with it and put it away, no ifs, ands, or buts about it.

I didn't think much about it then, mostly because I needed pretty much every bill I could get my hands on. I had hefty credit card balances and had just bought a new car.

But I never forgot that. And then, when a guy I had kind of started seeing mentioned doing something similar, I decided that maybe I'd give it a shot too.

So late last year I made a box just for this purpose. I designed it with just a slit at the tip to prevent my getting in and out of it easily. And I covered it in pretty wrapping paper -- like a gift. And then came decision time: To save ones or fives? The fives won.

I've done well. Mostly. Around August I started dipping into it, thanks to a pair of tweezers. Five bucks here, five bucks there. Finally, at the end of August, after I finished grabbing $15 for dinner with friends, I told myself, "That's it. No more dipping." And I promised that for the rest of the year, no matter what, I would save every $5 I got.

Since then, the Universe has been having fun with me. I go cash a check for $17 bucks and the bank teller gives me three fives. I get $20 out of the ATM for lunch and what do I get in change after buying said lunch? Two fives. And today, after getting $20 from the ATM to get a card, the clerk gave me three fives. I expected to get one $5 bill, but three?! And I peeked -- the clerk legitimately did not have any 10s in the register. Nope, whatever force is out there has called my bluff and is bound and determined to have me honor my promise.

But it's paid off. At last count, I now have $405, including the three fives from today.

I told a good friend about it a couple of months ago and he decided to try it too, but with $1 bills. Three days ago, he counted: He has 100 bucks.

What I'm getting to is this: Turning it into a game makes it fun. And in the end, no matter how much you end up with, you win. My plan was to stop at the end of the year, but now I'm thinking of waiting until spring, maybe using it for a weekend shopping trip. Any bets on how much I'll have by then?